"Free Seven Day Definitive Self-confidence And Ego-Boost Strategy From Cosmic Ordering Coach Stephen Richards"

By Stephen Richards

Affirmations used on their own are not as powerful as when they are used in conjunction with the system I have developed for self-confidence issues and in boosting your ego. What I have developed is superior enough on its own to challenge and overturn numerous conditions of the mind without the use of hypnosis or subliminal messaging.

There is a belief that affirmations are miracle cures, although they are powerful tools if used correctly they can also be wasteful of your time. What use is an affirmation if it is not hitting the area for where it is needed? Now with an up to date technology you can save time and make affirmations work in instilling confidence into you. You will be able to go the extra mile to achieve better things, and even for you to admit your mistakes and vowing to learn from them.

If you just chant or repeat an affirmation inside of your head like a parrot then you will find them to be a waste of time and effort. In order for an affirmation to work it has to get inside of your head and target the zone it was made for. Now all of that is possible through my specially designed "Ultimate Confidence & Ego Boost CD".

In order for you to discover the difference between just repeating an affirmation and how it can be used as a potent life-changing tool I am giving you, at no cost to you, seventy ego-boosting affirmations. Try using the affirmations, say them two or three times daily and then if you use the "Ultimate Confidence & Ego Boost CD" you will see the difference. Pick ten affirmations a day from the list below for the next week. repeat them first thing in the morning and last thing at night.

Day 1

1. I have confidence in myself

2 I count my blessings and rejoice in my growing awareness

3 I can be assertive and still be considerate of the feelings of others

4 I am warm and friendly toward all I contact; I treat everyone with consideration and respect

5 My age is always an advantage to me

6 The voice inside my head will become positive, supportive, and encouraging

7 I am at ease speaking to any size group of people

8. I know that whatever I believe I can achieve

9. I see things clearly

10 I stand my ground when I believe in something

Day 2

11 I will reject "giving up" and meet all obstacles with renewed determination

12. I think I'm a good human being

13 I will achieve anything I put my mind to

14 I have the confidence to go after my dreams full speed

15. I feel deep down that I'm an okay person

16 I embrace the challenges and risks of everyday life, each one making me stronger and wiser

17 I embrace change and growth in every area of my life

18 I accept all criticism for what I can learn from it, using it as motivation to pull out the best I have to give

19. I am my own unique self - special, creative and wonderful

20. My self-worth is a function of my inner being (of who I am) and not what others think of me or how much I accomplish

Day 3

21 I disagree with someone without being offensive or feeling defensive

22 I keep my composure even when others are losing theirs

23 I get people to think in terms of possibility instead of limitations

24. I am faultless in what I do

25 I can see beyond all problems to the wonderful success that awaits me

26 I am willing to fight for what I believe is right

27 I refuse to ever be held back by fear

28 I become immune to the negative effects of fear and worry

29 I eliminate all barriers to effectively asserting my ideas and opinions

30 I dissolve all blocks to delegating effectively

Day 4

31 All indecision is gone

32. I have the power to change myself

33 I see mistakes as the best teachers I could have

34. I can make my own choices and decisions

35 I am free of any habit of putting off difficult tasks

36 I dissolve all blocks to clear, effective communication

37 I am forgiven for being self-critical in the past

38 I accept and embrace all the responsibilities of being a leader

39. It is enough to have done my best

40 I celebrate and share the success of a well-deserved victory

Day 5

41 All anxiety surrounding my responsibilities has dissolved

42 I see all of life's difficulties as learning experiences

43 I know when to talk and when to listen

44. I am a well loved and well respected person

45 I look at big goals as just sequences of small easy to achieve steps

46 I can adapt to any surroundings I find myself in

47. I am free to make my own choices and decisions

48 I give people the knowledge and tools to do their job and then let them do it

49. My high self esteem allows me to accept compliments easily and also freely compliment others

50. I accept others as they are and they in turn accept me as I am

Day 6

51 I expect the best from everyone around I and usually get it

52. All is well in my world and I trade love and acceptance with the world

53. I have high self esteem as I respect myself

54 I encourage people to be creative and solution oriented

55 I positively connect with people on an emotional level

56 I create systems and environments that allow people to do their best

57 I continually develop and sharpen my leadership skills

58 I enjoy the challenge of learning new things

59 I appreciate successful people for what they can teach

60 I can always talk myself into staying calm no matter what

Day 7

61 I have the inner power and strength to deal with whatever life brings me

62 I am a sharp, bright, intelligent person

63 My confidence grows with each accomplishment no matter how small

64 Life gives me in each moment exactly what I need in every situation in order to be happy, perform my life and purpose and grow spiritually

65 I am intelligent and capable enough to succeed in any endeavour which is important to me

66 I place more importance on what I can do than what I cannot

67 I am fit, healthy and attractive

68 Instead of waiting for the right circumstances, I always create them

69. The negative opinions or attitudes of others are worthless

70 I am able to see many ways of solving problems - 31984

About the Author:

Mind Power expert Stephen Richards is a best-selling author specialising in Cosmic Ordering. The "Ultimate Confidence & Ego Boost" CD uses advanced technology and can be seen on his web site.

Helping Our Children Who Have No Self Confidence

By Trevor Johnson

Although there are many obstacles impairing our children's self-esteem, there are many things we could do to help our kids fight back. If your child is getting bad grades, cannot make new friends, or get along with other kids he or she may have no self confidence. This could lead your child into a bad situation like getting involved in the wrong crowd. Here are some ideas of ways to help your son or daughter develop better self-belief.

We can develop our children's self-belief through positive reinforcement. Instead of always criticizing our kids when they are wrong, we can spend more time acknowledging their good behaviors and accomplishments. This will help them to establish a better belief system in their own actions. They will find it easier to relate to positive criteria rather than always seeing the negative.

Pushing our kids to join some type of group activity is a great way to develop self confidence. There are tons of groups for young people to choose from. Your child should have no problem finding one that meets his or her needs. They could join almost anything as long as it is a good involved group. It is important that your son or daughter choose something that fills his or her needs and not yours. You do not want to push your child into a group that makes them unhappy, since they will not help them in anyway.

Since many young people spend a good portion of their time watching TV or on the Internet, they loose a lot of interacting experience that they would have gotten if they were outdoors. When they are outside, they may meet new people or interact more with ones they already know. It is up to parents to keep this interaction going by limiting the amount of time they allow their children to spend in unproductive endeavors.

Many parents feel they are to busy to spend time with their children. This could lead to unhappy teenagers who do not know how to communicate with adults. We should take the time necessary to make sure our kids are getting what they need why they are young so that when they become teenagers, they will know how to talk to us.

Young people with no self confidence need their parent's support to help them develop. Parents should never give up on their children and support them in becoming healthy happy adults with the confidence it takes to make it in life. - 31984

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Trust Yourself

By Lexi S Delaney

A person of wisdom had once exclaimed, "It is what you think you are not, that is holding you back and not what you are". One needs to have self-belief in order to get one step ahead of what you are required to do. No risk no reward, if you have to take risks you have to take them. Most people don't achieve their full potential because they are afraid of being wrong and taking risks. That's part and parcel of life, isn't it? Making errors is human and all make mistakes. If you don't fall, how will you learn to get up? They occur to teach you valuable lessons of life.

If you are forever afraid of doing things because of fear, then you just cannot succeed much. To start on the path to success first have faith in you. Rough period have been put in place to teach you lessons and strengthen you. You will face obstacles, fall every once in a while, and each defeat will teach you to get up better. You will become wiser and know more about the obstacles and how to navigate them better next time around.

You will learn many valuable things that will aid you ahead. In the end you are either a winner or a loser and that's how it is. What one achieves is not the major factor in determining winners from losers. It's something else.

Winners can take a beating. Each setback is just further motivation to walk ahead stronger till the reach the end. Being brave is most important, because those who can't risk it don't reach anywhere worth reaching ever. Like tenacity, your resolve and drive to do anything. You become ultra focused and goal-oriented in order to do something. You don't have to become manic and obsess over a task; a little each day goes a long way.

Drop by drop, the ocean was filled. Have belief in yourself daily and you will achieve it surely. Even though there might be a few spooky times, you can take the blows as part and parcel of life. One must accept that all of life cannot be controlled. All people are not amiable and some might want to blow dirt on you. Crises happen all the time. You shouldn't blame yourself for them. Similarly, don't blame others for the $#@%. $#@% happens. Focus on what can be done instead of what cannot and you will get a lot more done. Always keep a plan B in place. Life brings unexpected turn of events, be prepared for the worst of needed.

The only thing sometimes between winning and losing is that winners know they can win. It is amazing but true, when you know you can, you just do it. Never quit, never bow down to adversity, never compromise, make the required sacrifices, put in the effort, time and money and you will surely be there.

Asses your skills and aptitude realistically to set goals. Then abide by the regimen to reach the goal. Never say die, it's not important to win, what counts is that you participated in the race.

Every fall is another way of getting back up. Keep up the good work and persist on. As long as you put your mind to something, nothing is impossible. In fact nowadays they say that impossible is nothing. You can do anything you want, keep at it, don't give up. Start today and see for yourself. - 31984

About the Author:

You can learn some powerful insights in a free course at Wisdom Insights. Lexi S Delaney teaches wisdom courses and you can learn more at Self Development Insights.