Trust Yourself

By Lexi S Delaney

A person of wisdom had once exclaimed, "It is what you think you are not, that is holding you back and not what you are". One needs to have self-belief in order to get one step ahead of what you are required to do. No risk no reward, if you have to take risks you have to take them. Most people don't achieve their full potential because they are afraid of being wrong and taking risks. That's part and parcel of life, isn't it? Making errors is human and all make mistakes. If you don't fall, how will you learn to get up? They occur to teach you valuable lessons of life.

If you are forever afraid of doing things because of fear, then you just cannot succeed much. To start on the path to success first have faith in you. Rough period have been put in place to teach you lessons and strengthen you. You will face obstacles, fall every once in a while, and each defeat will teach you to get up better. You will become wiser and know more about the obstacles and how to navigate them better next time around.

You will learn many valuable things that will aid you ahead. In the end you are either a winner or a loser and that's how it is. What one achieves is not the major factor in determining winners from losers. It's something else.

Winners can take a beating. Each setback is just further motivation to walk ahead stronger till the reach the end. Being brave is most important, because those who can't risk it don't reach anywhere worth reaching ever. Like tenacity, your resolve and drive to do anything. You become ultra focused and goal-oriented in order to do something. You don't have to become manic and obsess over a task; a little each day goes a long way.

Drop by drop, the ocean was filled. Have belief in yourself daily and you will achieve it surely. Even though there might be a few spooky times, you can take the blows as part and parcel of life. One must accept that all of life cannot be controlled. All people are not amiable and some might want to blow dirt on you. Crises happen all the time. You shouldn't blame yourself for them. Similarly, don't blame others for the $#@%. $#@% happens. Focus on what can be done instead of what cannot and you will get a lot more done. Always keep a plan B in place. Life brings unexpected turn of events, be prepared for the worst of needed.

The only thing sometimes between winning and losing is that winners know they can win. It is amazing but true, when you know you can, you just do it. Never quit, never bow down to adversity, never compromise, make the required sacrifices, put in the effort, time and money and you will surely be there.

Asses your skills and aptitude realistically to set goals. Then abide by the regimen to reach the goal. Never say die, it's not important to win, what counts is that you participated in the race.

Every fall is another way of getting back up. Keep up the good work and persist on. As long as you put your mind to something, nothing is impossible. In fact nowadays they say that impossible is nothing. You can do anything you want, keep at it, don't give up. Start today and see for yourself. - 31984

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